potential trust issues?

[saurusREX]

it's complicated, but..yeah. help plz?

so my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 7 months now. the thing is, it's long distance. he lives 2 hours away, & being a highschool student who isn't even supposed to be dating, we definitely couldn't see eachother as often as we wanted. after we met in july, we went six months without seeing eachother in person, only talking through msn, emails, phone calls, & webcam before we finally got together again in january. after getting back from hanging out at his house, i got 2 messages on facebook; one from his ex saying that that he had been cheating on me with her, and one from his sister saying that he'd been playing me the whole time. now, here's where it gets complicated: (a) my boyfriend HAS lied to me before about his ex being over at his house. (b) his ex CLEARLY still loves him, even though she says that she doesn't. (c) he's not on good terms with his sister. they hate eachother more than you'd ever believe. (d) his ex and his sister are BEST FRIENDS.

ANYWAY, i'm not sure what to do. i mean, i LOVE my boyfriend more than anything, & i want to believe that he feels the same, but i know that he has a past. but on the other hand, his ex wants him back and she seems like the person who will do anything to get him. i don't want to lose him, but i also don't want to let him get away with anything.

ANY advice on what to do?

[AdamWood]

Hey SaurasREX,

Sounds like alot is going on and your not sure of what to do, really the only one to know whats really best is you. Do what you feel is right if you wanna hang on to this person do it perhaps you should talk to him about this and if theres something real between you he will understand he'll tell you whats up, you may be right about the EX perhaps she is still attached to him and is only trying to separate the two of you. In the end its your decision trust youll make the right one doing what you know.

[lovegeneration]

You have to be a little bit open with each other!