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bb-death
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 Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 4:55 pm Post subject: counsellor |
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| ok i need some help/ im a 17 year old girl and i am starting to think that i like my counsellor a bit more then just a friend and counsellor waht do i do?? |
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Hello bb-death,
Although we can't give you advice or personal opinions, we may be able to help you find what you feel is your best course of action. Have you talked to your counsellor about your feelings? If so, how did that go? If not, how do you think it may go?
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bb-death
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| Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2009 7:57 pm Post subject: |
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| The thing is. Is that my counsellor is a girl to. I have never liked a girl but do some reason I really like her. What do I do |
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Hi bb-death,
Do you think it would help to tell your counsellor how you feel? Counselling relationships are usually most effective when the client is being completely open about their feelings. Do you think you would be able to do that?
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gabe188
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| Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 12:07 pm Post subject: Transference in Counselling |
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It is not uncommon for people to expereince "feelings" toward a helping professional especially when it comes to a therapist or a counsellor. It is called "Transference".
"Transference is one of those "strange but true" manifestations of the human spirit. If you are just beginning your work in psychotherapy and don't understand why you're feeling the way you do towards your therapist, consider that it might arise from the transference.
Transference in psychotherapy is typically an unconscious process where the attitudes, feelings, and desires of our very early significant relationships get transferred onto the therapist.
In other words, as your relationship with your therapist deepens, the situation triggers familiar feelings related to previous connections with others. You begin to experience the therapist - in the present - in much the same way you had experienced a significant person from your past."
http://www.myshrink.com/counseling-theory.php?t_id=18
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seraulu1
Joined: 22 Feb 2010
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| Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2010 11:44 pm Post subject: ''cutie 28'' |
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| I need some help to,im 20y/o and im play girl before,but i don't know why im can't playing games to this guy and i fell that he only play with me he always lie at me what im going to do? |
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seraulu1
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| Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2010 11:46 pm Post subject: Re: ''cutie 28'' |
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| I need some help to,im 20y/o and im play girl before,but i don't know why im can't playing games to this guy and i fell that he only play with me he always lie at me what im going to do?learn hypnosis |
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